No more hemming and hawing. No dissembling allowed here.
Once again I find myself in a hole that I do not know how to dig my way out of. In short: I need help. I am unsure how to get the help I need, and am even less certain of whom to ask or how to ask them.
As I have previously stated, I have been out of work since February. I have filled out numerous applications, e-mailed resumes and made phone calls. After four months, I still have nothing to show for my efforts.
I was kicked out of the guest house I had been renting in March. Since that time I've been sleeping on a mattress at my sister's house. It's not been a perfect solution, but I've had a roof over my head, food to eat and net access. This situation is, alas, coming to an end.
My sister and her husband have been renting a double-wide trailer since December. It's cramped and nothing works like it should. After months of disputes with their landlord, they have elected to move out, but they have yet to secure another permanent place to live. They've been hashing out alternatives including hotel rooms and campgrounds. None of these is exactly cheap, but it's better than nothing. The problem for me, in this situation, is that prices for these places go up incrementally in relation to how many people are staying in them. My sister has eight children and a manny, plus two dogs and five inside/outside cats. That doesn't leave a lot of leeway for me. In another seven days or so, I won't have a place to live.
This is quickly becoming the story of my life: I live for a time in a place until circumstances make it impossible to live there anymore, and I end up having to move away and start all over again someplace new. That's what happened in 2007, when I moved back to Virginia from Charlotte, North Carolina. January 2010 found me reluctantly moving to from Portsmouth, Virginia to Tallahassee, Florida. I've considered moving again, either back to Virginia or to Charlotte. I have pleasant memories and a few friends left in each location. This should be easy, right?
Sometime before I came to Florida, my father had told me I could live with him and his new wife. That was before he permanently moved in with her in Elizabeth City, North Carolina. Since they've been married, my father has grown somewhat distant. I haven't talked to him since last spring, and any contact we've had has been initiated by me. Sometime between then and now, Dad dropped off of my Facebook friend list. I tried to call him yesterday just to talk. I wasn't going to ask for money or anything stupid like that; I just wanted advice from my father. No one answered the phone, and no one has returned my call. Dad hasn't been the same since Mom died, but I'd hate to think that he doesn't want to associate with me anymore.
Because I've been out of work so long, I've got no money. I also have no transportation. I've been told that if I can secure a place in either location, or indeed anywhere, that I will be able to get a ride to wherever I'm going. That is cool, but it's not much of a plan. I am tired of being rudderless. I just don't know what to do. Does anyone have an idea? A word of friendly advice? Please let me know.